On this partaking and heartfelt episode, Peg Fitzpatrick welcomes Sandra Sallin, an inspiring content material creator who has made waves within the social media world together with her charming YouTube channel. Collectively, they discover the artwork of constructing real connections on-line, Sandra’s distinctive on-camera confidence and the important position well being and neighborhood play as we age. The dialog additionally highlights the ability of Sandra’s storytelling on her YouTube channel and the influence of genuine interactions in nurturing a vigorous, supportive neighborhood.
Be part of us for a pleasant mixture of knowledge, humor, and motivation to pursue your passions and preserve curiosity at any stage of life.
High Takeaways:
- Constructing genuine connections makes an actual influence in social media.
- Pursuing content material creation out of your passions retains it enjoyable and relatable.
- Confidence on digicam can come from treating the viewers like buddies.
- Well being consciousness and common check-ups are essential, particularly as we age.
- Neighborhood thrives on significant interactions, not simply likes or numbers.
- Authenticity resonates deeply, fostering viewers loyalty and connection.
- Getting old gracefully will be empowering and encourage others.
- Private tales can uplift and encourage audiences in their very own journeys.
- Curiosity and openness to studying are key to lifelong progress and achievement.
- Real, private engagement enhances on-line connections and assist.
Chapters:
- 00:00 – Constructing Genuine Connections
- 08:55 – The Journey to Content material Creation
- 17:57 – Authenticity and Confidence on Digital camera
- 25:09 – Well being, Getting old, and Neighborhood Constructing
- 34:00 – Empowerment By Storytelling and Connection
Whether or not you’re beginning out or seeking to reconnect together with your inventive spark, this episode is a reminder that it’s by no means too late to share your voice and make a distinction on-line. Tune in, get impressed, and uncover how Sandra’s journey can encourage you to embrace your path confidently and authentically.
PLEASE observe Sandra’s YouTube Channel right here
PODCAST:
Transcript with Audio system Peg Fitzpatrick and Sandra Sallin (that is an AI transcript so it is not good)
Peg Fitzpatrick (00:05.038):
At the moment we’re going to discuss constructing genuine connections with Sandra Sallin, who’s my good friend and she or he’s going to affix us. I’ll deliver her in as quickly as she is right here.
Peg Fitzpatrick (00:27.566):
Thanks for becoming a member of. Let me know the place you guys are. I am gonna strive saying, there we go. Whats up. It labored. Woo, take a look at us doing the web. How spectacular is that? I do know. Wealthy was like, you are going reside with Sandra. Is it gonna be like six hours lengthy? I am like, no, we’d not do this to folks. So hi there, all people. I’m Peg Fitzpatrick.
And that is one in every of my social success sequence. And at the moment, as I discussed, we’re going to discuss with Sandra Sallin, who’s actually one in every of my favourite folks on the entire complete planet. And she or he is so inspiring. You guys are going to like listening to what Sandra has to say. So I am very completely happy you are right here, Sandra. Thanks. Welcome to my discuss present.
Sandra Sallin:
Is not that enjoyable? I like that concept.
Peg Fitzpatrick
So you might be, as I discussed, so inspiring to me. And a part of that’s since you are an 80, and I am not making a gift of your age, since you say it in your individual bio, however you might be, you need to be. You are an 83-year-old magnificence creator and you might be like a phenomenon on Instagram and YouTube. Individuals love you and your content material. So are you able to inform me what’s impressed your ardour for creating movies and Instagram content material?
Sandra Sallin
It wasn’t actually me. Effectively, initially, do you want me higher with glasses or with out?
Peg Fitzpatrick:
I like each. I imply, for those who want them to see, then depart them on. However I imply, they, you all the time look nice with glasses. I by no means put on mine on-line.
Sandra Sallin:
Alright. Effectively, my husband likes glasses additionally. Yeah. Okay. So what impressed me? I wasn’t impressed. What occurred was my son mentioned, you have to do movies, mother. And also you mentioned, you have to do movies, Sandy. And I mentioned, huh?
I do not know what to do. What am I going to speak about? And so, so I did not and it took me without end and it was silly as a result of my son no less than as soon as a month would say, you have to do movies, mom. However I actually did not know what I used to be going to speak about. Then do you wish to know extra?
Peg Fitzpatrick (02:49.816):
Hold going. I am listening.
Sandra Sallin:
Alright. So then what occurred was I watched anyone on YouTube speaking about how for those who’re looking for one thing and also you’re one individual, you have to know that there are hundreds looking for a similar factor. And what I used to be looking for was make-up for the mature. And I am speaking about actually mature. I am not speaking about these little, these teenager. And your 30s. Yeah, 30s, 40s. My God, I am 50. I am speaking about 60s, 70s and 80s. Yeah. have been lots of people. And I assumed, nicely, since I am actually enthusiastic about it, possibly that is what I will do.
Sandra Sallin:
I began with, you may love this, as a result of I like doing Instagram lives as a result of I actually felt like I used to be speaking to folks. So I did one on lipstick and learn how to make it extra luscious trying. And I assumed, nicely, I will do one. And other people actually preferred it. And I assumed, huh?
They usually needed extra.
Peg Fitzpatrick:
That is the way it began. Together with your love of lipstick. And by the best way, all people, Sandra picked out this lipstick for me. I all the time put on my Chanel. It is the Chanel that you simply despatched me as a result of it is the very best colour. It is the very best colour on digicam, actually is.
Sandra Sallin:
You understand what? It appears fabulous together with your jacket.
Peg FItzpatrick:
I did tremendous pink at the moment. Pink with extra pink. Yeah. I imply, I did not have, I despatched Sandra some pre-questions, however like simply, beginning again, a part of the explanation that your son Matt and I each assume it is best to go reside or be on video is as a result of you have got, clearly you have got such an amazing persona, however you even have a Hollywood background of digicam expertise and issues that possibly at this stage you were not essentially considering, I was in commercials and I have been in entrance of the digicam, however I feel all of these issues actually, typically are.
The backgrounds do not realize that issues that we have achieved in our previous relate a lot to what we’re doing now or what, like, you actually began out, you have been gonna be, nicely, we did not even discuss your, your first foremost profession was you have been a effective artist. And I do not know if there is a portray proper behind you; assume there’s that approach. Yep. There’s, there’s somewhat little bit of one in every of Sandra’s work. So Sandra was a effective artist for many years. She created like a gorgeous artwork. So that is Sandra’s like, subsequent factor. This is rather like a subsequent factor that she’s doing
Peg Fitzpatrick (05:14.69):
However so most of the different issues that she did in her life, creativity and clearly being an artist is all expression, proper? However a distinct approach. So yeah, I feel it prefer it all type of tied into what you do now, regardless that it wasn’t what you probably did on your foremost factor.
Sandra Sallin:
A humorous factor, I examine folks, you already know, being concerned about being in entrance of a digicam. I simply by no means was. And I do not even after I did commercials, it was all the time simply actually me and I simply by no means bothered me. I even, you already know, I feel one of many questions possibly was after I discuss on like on YouTube or on Instagram, I am actually speaking to a good friend. It is not an entire group of individuals, however I feel that it is one good friend and that I am speaking, we’re out to lunch and we’re having a very nice dialog.
Peg :
So that you type of boiled down what advertising and marketing is, regardless that you are not a advertising and marketing skilled, like you have got, you’ve got created what they name like your avatar, your like very best buyer, your very best consumer, all these issues imply the identical factor, however you want boil that down with out even understanding all of the advertising and marketing communicate of identical to, I am simply going to give attention to like one individual and you do not assume, that is scary. We’re reside proper now. And who’s going to see the video? You are identical to, I am trying on the digicam, having a dialog and it is with
It is effective. Is not that attention-grabbing?
Sandra Sallin:
It’s. And you already know what else is humorous? I discuss a whole lot of issues that lots of people do not wish to discuss or that I am photographed in a approach that no one of their proper thoughts can be photographed. However I do not even assume something of it till I meet anyone and so they know a lot about me and I do not perceive how they know a lot about me, not realizing that I’ve spilled all of it.
Peg:
I do know a few of your YouTube thumbnails crack me up. Your earlier than and after footage are actually the very best. They are surely. Personally would by no means, like I like make-up too. Sandra and I each love make-up. It is one in every of our little bonding issues, however I’ve by no means filmed something like with no make-up to do like a prepare with me. However a part of that’s folks do not observe me for that. They might be like, Who cares? Like we wish to know the advertising and marketing side of issues. So I feel for me, folks can be like, wow, she appears somewhat drained at the moment. Why does she don’t have any colour in her face? Trigger I’ve to say, that is one factor whenever you’re older colour disappears out of your face. Prefer it’s draining out. I feel, proper?
Sandra Sallin (?):
Sure. do assume. Sure. Effectively, I’ve a girlfriend who owns a make-up firm and she or he was aghast and shocked. What do you imply filming proper after you’ve got had surgical procedure? Are you out of your thoughts?
She was actually, do not do this, do not ever do this. After which she mentioned, possibly I am incorrect.
Peg Fitzpatrick (09:54.346):
It is simply, it simply takes braveness, proper? To do the no make-up factor. You understand, you simply must say, you already know what, different folks do it. I imply, I imply, to be sincere, like Hannah Martin make-up, she’s anyone that you simply love, Hannah Martin. She is so stunningly lovely earlier than with no make-up. After which she places make-up on and she or he’s like,
Sandra Sallin:
Gorgeous instances, all the things. However you, you and I aren’t, Hannah’s in all probability 30s, however I imply, that was some time in the past for us. So, I imply, she does look nice earlier than and after. So we’ll return to our questions every single day. And for those who’re watching, I’m going to do a giveaway for my new guide on the finish. I am gonna provide you with guys a secret phrase that you simply’re gonna must remark on this publish when it is on as an precise publish.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
So on the finish, we are going to do a giveaway for a guide.
Sandra Sallin:
I’ve already ordered yours.
Peg
Thanks. I respect that. What does authenticity imply to you in your publish? And the way is that? I feel you already answered that one since you talked about the way you’re simply speaking to 1 individual. So confidence on digicam is not straightforward for most individuals. What has helped construct yours? And what recommendation would you share for anybody who’s digicam shy?
Sandra Sallin (?):
It truly is speaking to anyone over lunch. That it is that I actually am speaking. I actually really feel like I am speaking to an individual. I am not. That is about it. Yeah. Type of consider it as speaking to 1 individual. You are not speaking to hundreds. However for those who’re simply speaking to 1 individual and having lunch and giving them concepts and having forwards and backwards, regardless that there is not any forwards and backwards. Nevertheless it’s the best way I might discuss to anyone. Yeah.
Sandra Sallin:
When was the final time I went out to lunch?
Peg: July?
Sandra Sallin (?):
I do not know if it was that in July. Proper. It was with you.
Peg:
I visited Sandra in July, all people. And we went out to lunch and it was the very best. So that you’re continuously studying and mastering new expertise, which I feel lots of people say, you already know, anyone who’s not a millennial or above, that it is simply past them. However so what’s your secret to staying curious and open to evolving tech?
Sandra Sallin (?):
I might say that it is simply being curious. I have been, I, you already know, I am going down deep darkish holes, you already know, to seek out the solutions to issues. And instantly I will be, I will learn some little factor. What was it? The newest was the, the, I have been studying a sequence of books by Robert Dugani and I needed to know his background. And so I will go deep, deep, deep, deep, deep and, and discover, discover out issues that no one is aware of about.
I used to be a beta tester and this needed to be 20, 30 years in the past. Love discovering, I consider a pc as being like this wizard and I like it and discovering out learn how to do new issues, I discover it very thrilling. Imply, did not come out, am I too shut?
Peg:
I am in all probability too shut. We’re like leaning in to speak to one another. It’s very effective.
Sandra Sallin:
So after I did, so being a beta tester, I discover, as I say, pc and the iPhone identical to a wizard. I’ve obtained magic in my palms. And so I wish to know extra and to have the ability to do extra. I like it. Imply, I discuss my Photoshop, Instagram, and Instagram is not straightforward. And what else? Video enhancing. My god. That is laborious.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Video enhancing is likely one of the hardest issues I feel.
Sandra Sallin (?):
To be sincere, I feel it’s too. So do you, wait, I simply had a query. I completely misplaced my practice of thought that I used to be gonna ask you. From Beta. Perhaps it will come again to me. You know the way issues are available in your head after which they’re gone? That simply occurred.
Peg Fitzpatrick (12:10.542):
So you’ve got constructed actually nice connections within the magnificence with magnificence influencers and different YouTubers, which I feel has helped you develop quite a bit. What’s your method to reaching out and the way do you suggest others make these connections?
Sandra Sallin (?):
You understand, I consider them, different folks or different folks as actual folks and I do not do it to make use of folks.
Sandra Sallin (?):
But when anyone has an amazing trying outfit, I will not simply give a coronary heart or a examine or a thumbs up. I will actually say one thing. I relate to Hannah Martin and her beautiful kids. I’ll by no means discuss her make-up, however I do discuss her kids. And possibly she’s placing an excessive amount of emphasis on the brand new, you already know, on Bo and possibly she needs to be doing extra on Bear. I imply, I discuss, you already know, I discuss to folks on an actual stage versus a pc stage and simply the outside stage that I see. I attempt to see extra than simply what’s in, you already know, simply the image. Like I simply noticed Linda, proper? How can Linda, proper, is a really, very trendy girl who has a store in Paris and attire so nice and so I discuss, you already know, how, possibly it is best to begin carrying burlap sack.
Sandra Sallin:
I imply, it is sufficient that you simply’re so beautiful. And why does anyone want a Dior pair of blue denims? I am positive no one talked to her that approach. However I talked to her in a approach, you already know, in an actual approach. And that is how I feel I’ve gotten.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Go away genuine, like true feedback, not identical to a coronary heart and a like and a very quick factor that basically anyone might say that is not actually significant.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
It doesn’t suggest something. Proper. It is very important do this. So yeah, for those who guys like folks’s content material, just remember to’re giving them like considerate feedback which can be greater than three phrases. YouTube, not YouTube, however Instagram actually does take a look at that. Like what number of conversations you are having in direct messages with folks, they take a look at all of these issues after they determine who to point out issues to. So it helps folks quite a bit. And because the algorithms maintain us from seeing folks. Like typically I’ve to go get hold of individuals who I like as a result of they are not exhibiting up in my feed. Then I actually be sure that I am going to these folks. You are able to do just like the little bell or star on any of the social platforms to ensure you see all of individuals’s content material.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Yep, anyone mentioned. I do know what you imply. Sure, I’ve achieved that.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Yeah, you are able to do the little bell or the little star that exhibits you, so that you see all of somebody’s posts. Since you do not see stuff anymore. It is so laborious. After which I am like, You understand, I have not seen so-and-so’s stuff in a very long time. Like Hannah Martin, we’ll simply maintain speaking about Hannah Martin, as a result of I like her too. However I imply, I’ve commented on her stuff a bunch. know, I despatched her, know, like, shared her stuff earlier than. After which typically I simply do not even see it. And I do know she’s posting on a regular basis.
Sandra Sallin:
She is. I simply noticed one thing this morning and thought, nicely, I missed one thing on Sunday.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Yeah, proper. I feel a part of that’s proper now due to all of the politics stuff. I feel all of the advert spends on stuff is taking on a whole lot of the algorithm area, which stinks. You are proper. I’ve thought that possibly it would get again to regular ish, however who is aware of?
Peg:
Constructing a web-based neighborhood the place folks really feel seen as uncommon, what has been essentially the most rewarding a part of bringing folks collectively via your content material? As a result of you have got a whole lot of commenting in your YouTube movies and your Instagram.
Sandra Sallin:
You understand, I’m very moved that I’ve helped individuals who, you already know, they see me at 83 subsequent month, 84. Do you imagine the 12 months after that I’ll be 85? God, I do imagine it. imagine you are simply going to maintain going without end, my God.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Wait, what was I going say? So folks see me. So folks see me and so they see me doing ridiculous issues or simply being me. And this girl was writing that she was a realtor.
Sandra Sallin (?):
And she or he thought, nicely, I am 65, so I have to retire as a result of I do not, I am not going to do something anymore. After which she noticed my movies and she or he thought, my God, this girl is in her eighties and she or he’s doing issues and she or he’s energetic and she or he wears make-up and she or he’s on the market. you already know, she mentioned, you already know what? I ended, I went out of retirement. I began carrying make-up and I went again to work. so, sure.
Peg Fitzpatrick (16:58.766):
And that is, is not that phenomenal? really feel like 65 is outdated at this level, proper? Imply, now we have much more outdated, you already know, as a result of there are individuals who retire at 25 and there are individuals who, are they going to do? I am like, what are you going to do for 60 years?
Sandra Sallin (?):
Effectively, I am with you, however it’s when folks, that is why I additionally discuss my well being. I need folks to know that I do not reside in some good world. That I’ve obtained my points, no one’s life is ideal. That is why I allow them to see me trying ridiculous. was taking a look at one thing the opposite day and I might had a basal cell most cancers on my brow and I see me with a giant bandage right here and a giant bandage there and I assumed, know, let folks see what it is actually like.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
You understand, I do know the place you have got scars and I by no means ever, ever discover them on something on-line. I by no means see them.
Sandra Sallin (?):
To be sincere, I do not even take note of them. Do not. They’re so, I feel it is identical to getting previous that. As a result of I feel one of many issues whenever you’re filming your self quite a bit and also you’re on Instagram quite a bit and YouTube a
your self quite a bit, you are taking a look at your self quite a bit and it’s totally unnatural. Such as you will be actually overly vital and be like, you already know what, I am not gonna movie myself as a result of my face appears somewhat puffy at the moment or like, you already know, one million issues. And it is like, you already know what, I simply, I do not even care about that anymore as a result of that is what I appear like at the moment, all people like, hey, I really feel prefer it’s a superb model of me. We’re by no means gonna be good. There is not any good.
Sandra Sallin (?):
My husband, the producer director, I made a video and I simply sat down right here and I did not have any mild. I do not even know if the sunshine is sweet proper now. I simply sat down right here and I did this video. I appeared horrible, however the video did so nicely. My husband mentioned, I by no means need you to sit down down and do a video and appear like that. And no one cares. And I did not care. I nonetheless do not.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Effectively, Bob is the very best. Sandra’s husband, Bob, he is a legend. He’s a legend. And he is so nice with filming as a result of he has had a really lengthy profession in Hollywood doing all completely different sorts of issues, writing, producing. However principally he is Sandra’s secret weapon behind the scenes. Proper.
Sandra Sallin (?):
You are so fortunate that approach. I did two level lighting at the moment, so we’ll see how mine is. You had California sunshine. I look darkish or not, however anyway, I did it myself. Effectively, you may discover out later.
Peg Fitzpatrick (19:22.378):
You are so proper. I? Sure, you are proper. Completely obtained kicked off Instagram. That is week two. So that’s not cool. I’ll attempt to add Sandra again in once more and I’ll end up our Instagram reside the place we’re speaking about authenticity and right here we go I am including being on-line and being your self and the way that connects with folks. So I do not know why Instagram, that is the second time you have got bumped me off whereas I am reside. Sorry, Sandra, that’s week two the place I obtained like simply randomly knocked off. Sandra obtained knocked off, I am gonna add her in once more. Instagram is just not loving us at the moment, hi there. I carry on seeing this white display screen that claims request to be on this reside video. Effectively, you are reside now.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Now we’re again reside. I do not know why that occurred two weeks in a row. Now you simply popped out once more. I’ll pull you again in. Instagram is combating us with all the things it has. Perhaps Sandra’s web is not nice. I am probably not positive, however I am attempting so as to add her again in. OK. I do not know why it retains knocking you off, however I am gonna override it and maintain bringing you again in. How dare they? kidding. So I can not see myself. All I see is a white display screen saying-
Peg;
However you might be reside. I can see you and also you’re reside now. Then let’s simply do it and I can not see myself, which might be effective. I might love to not see myself proper now. So earlier than we get kicked off once more, I am gonna do a giveaway of my guide. So that you guys, if you’re watching now, the key phrase is social success, which I will present you social success. So when that is posted, you simply have to remark within the feedback and say social success and simply say one factor that you simply preferred about this Instagram reside with Sandra and I, and you will be entered tomorrow.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
I’ll select a winner. You do have to be in the US as a result of transport is exorbitant today. I went to ship a guide and it was $12 and that was within the U.S. I used to be like, geez, publish workplace. I do not understand how Amazon does it. However take a look at how a lot a is. Is not it 79 cents? is. One thing loopy. is. Completely loopy. the place have been we? We talked about constructing your neighborhood. We’re on constructing your neighborhood and the way commenting and simply constructing the neighborhood. Effectively, it helps your content material develop as a result of when folks remark,
Peg Fitzpatrick (22:23.31):
And so whenever you’re on YouTube, what are your methods for constructing your neighborhood? Do you have got any?
Sandra Sallin:
I want I did. I have to learn your guide. I do not assume I’ve a technique. I attempt to be as sincere as I can. I am not sincere. I do make-up, however then I get bored. And what did I not too long ago do? I did a factor about how I misplaced weight.
Sandra Sallin:
And about how I am exercising. However I feel persons are loving that.
Peg:
Individuals are loving that you simply’re strolling and also you’re sharing it. And other people don’t know how hilly your neighborhood is. Sandra’s neighbor is just not like Little Hills is. She’s in like a, she’s on a mountain type of, proper? Aren’t you?
Sandra:
I imply, simply the opposite day I did my final of doing all of those hills and I assumed to myself, after which I used to be imagined to exit at evening and I assumed, I do not know if I can do it. I actually.
Sandra Sallin:
However that is nice. I imply, if I wish to breathe, all I’ve to do is stroll. It is like magic.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Sure, little issues like that. However folks have actually loved it. In order that’s why I assumed, nicely, I will inform folks about how I have been in a position to drop extra pounds. As a result of we will all, we will all, all of us have the identical downside. All of us have that weight to lose. All of us have to train. And the way many people do it?
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
One other wonderful thing about you is that you simply actually keep on prime of all of your physician appointments, which I feel is basically essential for folks to go to the physician and observe the physician’s recommendation. You understand, I feel lots of people do not do this.
Sandra Sallin (?):
I feel, yeah, I feel possibly when folks become old, such as you’re identical to, okay, I higher go for all these items.
Peg: However you already know, folks complain about going for a mammogram, like how horrible it’s. I am like, you already know, You gotta do it because- my God, do not, please. I imply, did you see the story I did about simply my newest mammogram?
Sandra Sallin (?):
Yeah. The place I assumed, I am effective, I am effective, I am effective. After which they are saying, nicely, we have to perform a little bit extra. They usually did uncover a cyst, however it’s not cancerous. However what if I hadn’t gone?
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
I do know. It’s a must to do it, all people. And it is October, so it is breast most cancers consciousness month. One factor that you would be able to study from that is please go get your mammograms and sustain in your physician appointments. Go to the dentist every year. Like that is one other factor folks do not take into consideration as a dentist.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Effectively, I am going to the dentist twice a 12 months. Do you go twice a 12 months?
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
I am going twice. I am going each six months.
Sandra Sallin (?):
I’ve to go each three or 4 months.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
You do?
Sandra Sallin (?):
Yeah. Effectively, trigger you’ve got obtained like your tooth well being is tied to your psychological well being. It is also tied to your coronary heart well being.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Actually?
Sandra Sallin (?):
Sure.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Wow.
Sandra Sallin (?):
It is very, they’re co-dependent.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Sure.
Sandra Sallin (?):
And you already know, you will get infections in your mouth or in your coronary heart and it might probably go to your, it is one thing. Do not take heed to me, however do take heed to me. You have to go.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Sure, make all of your appointments. Make each appointment that that you must make. Comply with up on it and observe the physician’s recommendation. Then you may thrive like Sandra. That is what I say.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Proper. Going to each physician recognized to mankind. Effectively.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
What you must, now we have one physique. We solely get one physique.
Sandra Sallin (?):
You are proper. You are proper. However anyway, so I do not, I want I have been extra, however I am not. I actually do issues, do issues about what I really feel like doing. I might actually like to do extra about cooking, however they are not as well-liked.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Trigger your viewers is type of educated on your pro-aging. And that is why they like your strolling. It is type of all tied with the identical factor. Similar to for me, folks actually observe me for social media issues. And I additionally discuss being a author. And typically I share like different issues in my life, like little issues. But when I attempt to do make-up content material, assured folks can be like, no, thanks.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Effectively, I used to be considering of you this morning as I placed on the Pat McGrath powder beneath my eyes that you simply insisted that I need to get.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
So sure, it is enjoyable although. get pleasure from it. You’ve got obtained nice make-up suggestions. However somebody simply mentioned that they love seeing your kitchen whenever you prepare dinner. You understand what, I additionally present, I do not understand how anyone can have a dirtier kitchen after they end cooking and even.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Judy says please prepare dinner. Perhaps folks do like your cooking.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Effectively, however I assume not sufficient. And I additionally haven’t got. I haven’t got the format that is good for cooking. My husband needs them to see my face. And he does, sure, he is, know, he is, he is of the old-fashioned. You do not simply present the, the, why cannot I get this white factor gone? What if I-
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Peter McNally says, are these Zuck glasses, Sandra? she simply knocked herself out. I’ll pull her again in once more. The web is combating and Sandra and I refuse to lose. Let’s examine if I can pull her in once more.
Peg Fitzpatrick (27:32.472):
To reply, assume these are simply common glass. I pulled you again in once more. Are your glasses ZEC glasses? do not assume, your glasses are common glasses, proper? They are not just like the, however they are not the meta glasses. They’re asking you probably have the meta, the meta glasses with just like the stuff in them. do not even know what that’s. They’ve some tech glasses. Bear in mind when Google glass got here out and so they had the glasses the place you would movie and stuff. Meta has a model of that now, which is hysterical as a result of Google already did it. After which Snapchat.
Sandra Sallin (?):
There was snap, keep in mind when there was Snapchat glasses? I do not even take note of that stuff.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Wayfarers. They only have common glasses. Okay, they need, he needed to know in the event that they have been wayfarers.
Sandra Sallin (?):
No, these are Warby Parker, and the fashion is Sonia. Yep. And you’ve got these in a few colours. Proper. I’ve obtained them in black and in tortoiseshell. Sure.
Peg Fitzpatrick (29:37.454):
I like them. I get extra feedback about my glasses. You’d assume that Warby Parker may give me a pair totally free? No.
Sandra Sallin (?):
You must contact them for a model partnership. I will provide help to do this. We’ll do this offline.
Sandra Sallin:
Anyway, so sure, these are simply bifocals. I feel they work. Do away with, you do not see traces. As an alternative, you simply see possibly lips and glasses. I really feel like typically after I put on them that they, I do not know.
Peg: The laborious factor is whenever you do your make-up and also you spend a lot time and you set glasses on after which it immediately adjustments your make-up. That’s irritating for me.
Sandra Sallin: Take a look at my eyeshadow that you would be able to’t And the way I did my eyebrows. Yeah. Come on. And I did somewhat little bit of lining beneath right here. You understand, the liner. You possibly can’t, then you definitely put your glasses on and no one even sees it. That is irritating for me.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Proper. And I by no means put on them after I’m reside. really feel like, I do not know, I get a glare or I do not know. I like my new glasses that I obtained, however I simply by no means put on mine on digicam. Even in pictures. I feel a part of it’s that for pictures, you all the time get some type of mild glare or, Do I’ve a light-weight glare? No, you do not. However I’ve a hoop mild on, so I positively would. Like, I’ve some, wait, I will seize, I’ve some, these are identical to peepers. We’ll see if I get them. If I do get, do I, see I get a giant, yeah.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Okay, then possibly you want the 2 mild factor.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
I’ve the 2 mild factor on proper now. However I am actually near my mild ring, in order that may very well be a part of it.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Perhaps that is it. Mine are over right here on the aspect. I haven’t got something. The lights are over right here on the aspect. Perhaps that is why I am doing it incorrect.
Sandra Sallin:
Nothing in entrance of me. You must discuss to Bob. He’ll inform you what to do.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Undoubtedly ought to. Undoubtedly ought to. OK, so we will return right here. And I’ll ask you for those who might return and provides your self, your youthful self, one piece of recommendation. What wouldn’t it be?
Sandra Sallin (?):
Be extra, and have extra religion in your self. Be stronger. Have extra self-confidence. I might say that.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Yeah, that is a superb one. It positively comes with age, would not it? I feel 20s and 30s are a really laborious time since you’re so laborious on your self, and you are feeling like your life has all these deadlines. I imply, you bought married younger, however I imply, typically…
Sandra Sallin (?):
Effectively, I obtained married younger too. And we picked nice husbands that we’re nonetheless married. Sure.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Peg’s husband is a hoot. He is nice. He is very brilliant and he is a delight to be with.
Sandra Sallin (?):
I feel identical together with your husband. I feel a part of the factor is a very nice lesson. It issues a lot who you select to be your accomplice. Proper. It is so essential. And you do not understand whenever you’re actually younger and also you’re selecting that individual, you do not even know all of the issues that it is like, are they gonna be good at funds or a superb household individual or good with children? You do not know any of these issues whenever you’re courting folks.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
I imply, my granddaughter is 22 years outdated. I obtained married after I simply turned 20. There is no such thing as a approach that I might need my granddaughter getting married at that age. There’s a lot I do not know that I assumed I knew all of it.
Sandra Sallin (?):
I do know. You positively, I feel that is the 18 to 24 possibly you assume you already know all the things and also you’re infallible and well being issues, go to the physician, why hassle? These sorts of issues.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
No, I am with you. So I feel that I wanted to have extra self-confidence. Though it by no means saved me from doing commercials, beginning my profession, however I feel that I might have been…
Sandra Sallin (?):
Effectively, you already know what? Wait a second. I am a lot older, and girls weren’t… Are you aware we needed to have our husbands signal so we might get a bank card?
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
I used to be simply going to say that as a result of it is solely 50 years since ladies might have a bank card. So that you have been really married. It was really simply the fiftieth anniversary of that. So that you have been really married whenever you could not have a bank card. Proper. It was a giant deal to have your individual bank card. And the opposite factor was it was just the start of the lady’s motion. Yeah.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Look how far we have come, child. No, you already know, we…
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
However I really feel like my technology like dropped the ball on it. And now I really feel like these youthful ladies are completely selecting up and, and I’ve a lot religion within the Gen Z ladies which can be on the market. Like, you already know, they’re actually good with like, they’re getting nearer to equal pay. Imply, males are combating tooth and nail on equal pay.
Sandra Sallin (?):
That’s one thing that is ridiculous. And I assumed, you already know, there’s so many ways in which that may very well be gone at this level, you already know, like simply hiring practices, even the web, like when the web got here out, you already know, running a blog was very fashionable and no one might see who was running a blog. It ought to have been equal for women and men and for talking engagements and all of that. And once more, males, it was like males obtained all of the guide offers, males obtained all of the talking engagements, males, you already know, males’s blogs the place it is like, why, why, you already know, it is simply, all the things is…
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Girls must do all the things that Ginger Rogers, you already know, backwards and in heels. The opposite factor is, keep in mind whenever you did not give your actual title since you did not need them to know you have been feminine? So that you simply used initials, and I feel they nonetheless do. I imply, it is horrible.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Yeah. And whenever you’re saying they used to do it, it even goes again to all the best way again to love Louisa Could Alcott when she was writing books, had to make use of a pretend title so they might purchase her guide as a result of she was a girl.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
It goes approach again to love feminine writers.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Simply to your proper. However then why did we all know that it was a Louisa Could Alcott? She finally began utilizing her title as soon as her guide was actually well-liked.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Someone says, our favourite guide that every of you have got learn this 12 months. That is a superb query. What’s your favourite? I’ve learn so many books. What was your favourite?
Sandra Sallin (?):
Extraordinary Lifetime of Sam Hale. I didn’t learn that one.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
That is by Robert Dugoni. That is how I began with him. After which I am studying thriller tales. I am having the very best time studying thriller tales. I simply learn, I simply completed a thriller.
Sandra Sallin (?):
I’ve simply completed…
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Have you ever learn any Laura Dave’s books?
Sandra Sallin (?):
Spell the final title.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
D-A-V-E Laura Dave.
Sandra Sallin (?):
No.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
The one I simply completed is The Night time We Misplaced Him. It is a thriller. They’re good. They’re good. I like actually could not put it down. I learn the entire thing. I am a quick reader. I learn the entire thing this weekend. I used to be like, wow.
Sandra Sallin (?):
I’ve to know what occurs. Perceive that. Simply wrote her title down. I will test it out.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
For those who like thrillers, she’s obtained a few good ones. She obtained her first, I do not know if it was her first guide, however one in every of her books was picked up in Reese Witherspoon’s guide membership. So it was large and it was become that, right into a sequence on Apple with Jennifer Garner. So that is the guide that she has after that.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Good for her.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Yeah, she’s checked out a whole lot of books.
Sandra Sallin (?):
You understand, it is like Reese Witherspoon, you already know, we’re not speaking about social media, simply in case you have been . However take a look at all these ladies who’ve these guide golf equipment and purchase these books in order that they’ll produce them and that they’ll, you already know, characteristic ladies, you already know, as a result of who else needs to characteristic ladies?
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
I do know, Reese Witherspoon has actually achieved quite a bit for that with beginning her manufacturing firm. And when she began it, I simply learn an article about it as a result of it was like,
Sandra Sallin (?):
the fifth anniversary, assume possibly of it. And she or he made no cash in any respect to start with. And she or he mentioned, I had no thought how the manufacturing and labored in any respect on it. They usually have been like, do not ever, like all of her monetary advisors have been like, do not do that. However she was like, I have to characteristic ladies. Want, folks have hearts and it might probably’t all be the male perspective and the male cash and the, the tales have to be completely different advised by completely different folks. So she produced a few issues and it was like,
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
wild and one other one which was simply as large and she or he, the corporate, manufacturing firm nonetheless made no cash. She was like, how does that occur? Like, this was like an enormous film. It takes, Hollywood is a loopy world over there with cash. Simply work out who someplace somebody’s making the cash, however who is aware of what that’s.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Proper. You understand, film will make billions of {dollars}, however we did not make any revenue. I do not understand how that occurs.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
I do know it is type of the identical with books. I imply, you, you write a guide. You you get upfront after which like my guide, it is like, it is $30. I do not make $30 on it. I make, I do not even know precisely how a lot, however it’s in all probability like 350 or $4 possibly per guide. We’re, know.
Sandra Sallin (?):
As an artist, you surrender 50%.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
50 %?
Sandra Sallin (?):
Yep.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Wow.
Sandra Sallin (?):
I do know. That is painful, proper?
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Very.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Very.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
So why is the fee so excessive? As a result of I assume they must have an artwork gallery. They must, they must maintain a brick and mortar place going. That is, I’ve by no means heard of that fee that prime. Imply, authors and also you now we have like 20%, you already know, goes to your agent after which, you already know, then it goes to, you already know, there’s, people who find themselves taking a bit out, however not 50%.
Sandra Sallin (?):
I actually assume it is as a result of they must have a brick and mortar place and that they must have, you already know, openings. Imply, how a lot can that be for some wine? Proper? Yeah.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Loopy. Ought to in all probability get off since you and I might discuss for six hours this weekend.
Sandra Sallin (?):
We might discuss without end. And I respect each single one who’s been watching. On this one, I am undecided if we even mentioned it, however I am doing a giveaway of my guide. For those who touch upon this one, there’s going to be two, sadly posts as a result of we obtained lower off and now we’re again. I’ll save this one additionally. So remark social success on both one of many posts from our reside video and I’ll select somebody tomorrow to get a signed copy and I’ll publish who the winner is.
Peg Fitzpatrick (42:15.886):
Tomorrow on my social channels. And somebody mentioned, Sandy, like to see you. Ship you like from Melbourne, UK. Your followers from everywhere in the world are saying hello.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Is not that fabulous? Thanks. However wait, one factor. Sure. Do folks know who you might be? Do they know?
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
What sort of a social media knowledgeable you might be. Effectively, in the event that they observe me.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Okay. Individuals are commenting. It may’t be within the feedback right here. It needs to be on it after I save this publish as a result of all of the feedback once we’re reside really disappear. Once I put it aside, it saves as a brand new publish. Is not that loopy? However anyway, it saves as a brand new publish and all of the feedback within the reside are gone.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
So that you really have to touch upon the publish after I put it aside. So I will be there in only a second. However there’s one from the primary half. Silly Instagram. So I do not know, do you guys know who I’m? Are you right here from, I do not assume it exhibits once we’re reside collectively. Once I appeared that up it mentioned no. However possibly persons are following you. For those who guys do not know, I am Peg Fispatrick. I wrote this guide, I wrote one other guide. I have been working in social media for like 15 years, a really very long time.
Sandra Sallin (?):
And I like social media. So I really feel unhealthy for folks simply becoming a member of now as a result of we’re simply on the point of head off. Sure, however you’ve got additionally represented folks and been their social media saviors and actually large, large folks. And you have taught folks learn how to be, nicely, you’ve got achieved their social media. You might be actually knowledgeable and other people ought to know that, that sure, you are actually, actually essential.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
I do not know if I am essential, however I have been doing it a very long time. I am fairly good at it, that is for positive. I’ve my 10,000 hours in for positive, regardless that that fable was dispelled.
Sandra Sallin (?):
What does 10,000 hours imply?
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Bear in mind the Malcolm Gladwell idea that anyone might get good at one thing in the event that they did it for 10,000 hours? I by no means began counting.
Sandra Sallin (?):
You’ve gotten your 10,000 hours in for those who depend all of your YouTube watching and commenting and…
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Assured you do since you’ve been doing this for a very very long time too.
Sandra Sallin (?):
You are proper, you are proper. Once you begin from whenever you began running a blog.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
You are proper. That was a superb 12 years in the past. You’ve got been doing this for a very long time. You weren’t a beginner, Sandra.
Sandra Sallin (?):
I really feel prefer it, although. Each day is a brand new day.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
To be sincere, it is like that for everybody in social media as a result of stuff adjustments. it’s contemporary. It is all contemporary and new. So thrilling. Effectively, I’ll finish this as a result of now we have been on a very long time and I actually respect your time. For those who guys are following me and you are not following Sandra, please just remember to observe her and take a look at her wonderful Instagram and her YouTube channel, which is unbelievable. And if you’re following her Instagram, it is best to 100% be following her for her longer content material on YouTube. You must observe her on each as a result of it is not the identical actual factor.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Thanks very a lot. I respect that little plug.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Effectively, you already know, I feel folks do not realize typically that they are following folks on a regular basis and they may not understand that hopefully they understand however your YouTube channel is your longer type content material. So it is extra Sandra.
Sandra Sallin (?):
You are proper. Extra Sandra. And you’ll watch no matter you need. Video on demand.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
You are proper. Yeah. So I’ll finish and I thanks guys for watching. And subsequent week will probably be recorded after which now we have two or three, I feel I’ve three extra reside on this sequence. So it will be Tuesdays at one o’clock Jap. 10 o’clock.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Thanks a lot. Western. And I’ll see you guys later. Thanks.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Thanks, Peg. It is all the time enjoyable.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Completely. Bye.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Bye.
